Ziqeqeshe nomntu owayesakuba ngumdlali wezemidlalo oyingcali nomqeqeshi wezemidlalo onamava eminyaka eyi-20 nangaphezulu ehlabathini lonke. Nokuba useholideyini okanye uhambela umsebenzi, yonwabela ukuzilolonga okwenzelwe wena—amandla, ukuba semandleni, ukukwazi ukuhamba okanye ukunciphisa umzimba. Iiseshoni zilungiselelwe inqanaba lakho lokomelela komzimba ibe zinokwenziwa kwindawo yakho eqeshisayo, elwandle okanye ejimini. Hlala usempilweni, uzive umangalisa, uze ubuyele ekhaya womelele kunaxa ubuye.

Fumana uqeqesho lokomelela lomgangatho wehlabathi oluvela kumdlali webhola ekhatywayo owayesakuba ngumdlali webhola ekhatywayo nomqeqeshi ophambili oneminyaka engaphezu kweyi-20 yamava. Ixesha lakho lokuzilolonga lenziwe ngokwezinto ofuna ukuzifezekisa—amandla, ukunyamezela, ukunciphisa umzimba, okanye ukusebenza—kusetyenziswa iindlela ezingqiniweyo ezithembekileyo zabadlali abakwihlabathi liphela. Zilolonge kwindawo oyiqeshileyo, ngaphandle, okanye kwindawo yokujima. Zenze ube nentembelo, ube namandla uze ufunde indlela abaqeqesha ngayo abantu abaphum' izandla—ukuze uhambe ufumene uqeqesho, womelele, uze ukhuthazeke.

Hlala usempilweni nokuba uphi na ngokuzilolonga okwenzelwe wena ngumntu owayesakuba ngumdlali wezemidlalo nomqeqeshi ophambili. Ngenxa yamava endinawo eminyaka engaphezu kweyi-20 ehlabathini lonke, ndiza kwenza iiseshoni ezilungele wena—ukomelela, ukwehla emzimbeni, ukukwazi ukuhamba okanye ukusebenza. Ziqeqeshe kwi-Airbnb yakho, elwandle okanye phandle usebenzisa izixhobo ezimbalwa. Ukuzilolonga ngakunye kulungiselelwe inqanaba lakho ukuze uzive womelele, usempilweni, kwaye unamandla ngexesha oza kulihlala.

Zipholele, uhlaziyeke, uze ube yinxalenye yendalo kwiseshoni yokwenza i-yoga enoxolo ngaselwandle. Yenza iintshukumo ezikhokelwayo ngokumamela isandi samaza kunye nomoya ohlaziyayo wolwandle okungqongileyo. Ezi seshoni zilungele wonke umntu, zidibanisa ukolula umzimba ngobunono, ukuphefumla nokucinga ukuze ube sempilweni. Enoba ufuna ukuqala usuku lwakho ngokucinga kakuhle okanye ukuyiphelisa ngokuzola, le nto onokuyonwabela ikhethekileyo iza kukwenza uzive uhlaziyekile, uzolile, kwaye uhlaziyekile.

Fumana uvuyo lokuhamba ngeseshoni yokubaleka ekhokelwa ngumntu owayesakuba ngumdlali wezemidlalo nomqeqeshi ophambili. Nokuba uqalayo okanye ungumntu obalekayo, ndiza kulungisa isantya, umgama, nendlela ukuze ilungele wena. Yonwabela iindlela ezintle, phucula indlela obaleka ngayo, uze uzive uvakalelwa ngendlela ababaleki abathi “yimvakalelo entle.” Ilungele ukuhlala usebenza ngoxa useluhambeni, le nto enokonwatyelwa ikushiya unamandla, uzive uphumelele, kwaye ukulungele ukwenza izinto zakho zosuku.

Hlaziya umzimba wakho ngeseshoni yokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo ekhokelwayo eyenziwe ngumntu owayesakuba ngumdlali wezemidlalo oyingcali nomqeqeshi wabadlali abaphambili. Usebenzisa umsebenzi wokuhamba, ukolula, ukuphefumla, kunye neendlela ezilula zokukhulula, le nto inokonwatyelwa inceda ukunciphisa ukuba buhlungu, ukuphucula ukuba bhetyebhetye, kunye nokubuyisela ukulingana. Nokuba ubukhenketha, uqeqesha, okanye ufuna nje ukuphumla, iseshoni nganye yenzelwe iimfuno zomzimba wakho ukuze uhambe ungakhathazwanga, uhlaziyekile, kwaye ukulungele okulandelayo.