Indlela yokwenza abantu babe ngabahlobo

Iindwendwe ziyawaxabisa amathuba okuncokola kamnandi nawe nezinye iindwendwe. Vula ithuba ngaphambi, ebudeni nasemva kwento enokonwatyelwa ukuze zizive zisekhaya.

Zenzele ixesha kwitikiti lakho ukuze iindwendwe zikwazi ukusondelana nawe, zisondele omnye komnye, nakubantu basekuhlaleni. Le nto inokuquka izinto ezinokwenziwa ezicwangcisiweyo nezingacwangciswanga.

• Ceba indlela yokuqalisa incoko. Cinga ngezinto ezinokuvusa incoko ngokukhawuleza, njengokubuza iindwendwe ukuba zezaphi. UGraciela, obuka iindwendwe kwiklasi yokupheka eMexico City, wakha wanceda iindwendwe ezisuka kwamanye amazwe zazane ukuba zingabamelwane. Uthi, “Loo ndlela ilula yokuqalisa incoko yajika yaba yindlela yokwenza ubuhlobo ngokungalindelekanga.
• Vumela iqela lidibane. Usenokumema iindwendwe ukuba zincokole ngesihloko esithile okanye ubalise ibali ukuze uzincede zazane. UAlan, obuka iindwendwe zityelele iNiagara Falls uthi, “Ndiye ndidibane nabantu abamangalisayo abanamabali obomi amangalisayo. Kwaye bakhetha ukwenza izinto ezinokonwatyelwa ukuze badibane nabantu. Bayifuna nyhani loo nto yokwenza ubuhlobo nabanye abantu.”
• Yazisa ngengingqi yakho. Nceda iindwendwe zakhje ubuhlobo nabantu basekuhlaleni, enoba loo nto icetyiwe okanye ivele yazenzekela. URuthy, obuka iindwendwe kuhambo lokonwabela ukutya eLisbon, uthi uyiglu edibanisa iindwendwe nabantu basekuhlaleni. “Iindwendwe ziyakuthanda xa sizazisa kumakhulu osesitratweni.”

Ukuba utshintsha izinto ukuze iindwendwe zibe nexesha lokwenza abahlobo, lungisa itikiti lakho ukuze ziyazi into emaziyilindele.

Hlala unxibelelana neendwendwe zakho usebenzisa ithebhu Yemiyalezo ngaphambi nasemva kwento enokonwatyelwa.

• Cwangcisa umyalezo wokuzamkela. Qalisa imiyalezo oyifumeneyo noyithumeleyo yeqela ngentshayelelo. Zibuze ukuba zinethemba lokufumana ntoni kwinto enokonwatyelwa nokuba ukhona na umntu obhiyozela usuku olukhethekileyo.
• Funda ngeqela ngalinye. Hlala ubandakanyeka kwincoko ukuze uncede wenze ukuba abantu bavane ngakumbi xa sele bekunye. Uza kufumana neenkcukacha ngeendwendwe zakho kwithebhu ethi Namhlanje, kuquka izinto ezizithandayo nendawo ezivela kuyo.
• Landelela xa sele kugqityiwe. Thumela iifoto, iividiyo, namacebiso, uze ukhuthaze neendwendwe ukuba nazo zenze ngendlela efanayo. Le nto inokunceda ekuqiniseni ubuhlobo iindwendwe ezibenzileyo zize zihlale ziyikhumbula into enokonwatyelwa xa zicelwa ukuba zibhale imilinganiselo nezimvo.

Bonke ababuki zindwendwe, iifoto neenkcukacha zento enokonwatyelwa kufuneka zifikelele imigangatho nezinto ezifunekayo Kwizinto Ezinokonwatyelwa zakwa-Airbnb.

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